Well I took my wife out to purchase a gun for her about 3 months ago and she decided on a very simple easy to use 38 revolver. After a couple of trips to the range she found my S&W 40 compact a better fit for her... so she took it . Then last week she decided she needed a 45.. So we went and got it… Sooooooo I guess what I am saying is taker her out. let her pick out whatever she likes for whatever reason then every time you go to the range have a couple of different guns for her to play with and next thing you know she is looking at a firearm as a defensive tool as opposed to an accessory 
BTW the Last one I went out and bought her... After she told me what to get anyway
