| Just because your a woman doesn't mean you shouldn't try and protect yourself and your family. Even cops have had their guns taken away and killed with them, but at least they died fighting. I would rather my wife carry a gun and be able to at least try and protect herself and me than be a willing victim.
I think one reason she decided to carry is that she knows I had a guy sit outside my house once waiting to ambush me when I went to work.
Remember your family loves you so be patience and take it one step at a time with them. And perhaps it'll be one of those things that you just can't talk about with anyone except your husband......oh and us.
__________________ Handgun control is using both hands. 
"Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea." - Robert A. Heinlein |