Man, I know how you feel. I'm NOT a big prepper,(I do what I can) but always had SOME extra food and water,guns, flashlights,batteries,radio,etc. Some friends and relatives get it, or get "part" of it But the ones who want a gun, but WON'T get one,

have no or one flashlight(I loan them mine

) drives me nuts

And when you try to help someone and it's like throwing away money,

well join the club, sir. Just rant to us, as we rant, to let it out and move on

It is harder to do that with loved ones.