You, are overthinking this .....
The only problem, I have encountered, is
a friend of mine, had a Dan Wesson, and
he was trying to reload his .357 cases,
he knew I reloaded, so he asked me ......
Anyway, his cases, just fell into the Lee
He had the little hand kit.
I just figured, that the cylinder bore,
was smaller than the sizing die .....
Anyway, if you are NOT shooting competion,
I would not worry about it .....
I load my revolvers light, and have gotten
20 reloads from a case.