My wife is a gun hater and I'm sick of it.

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Originally Posted by Indecision

I disagree with this 100%, my parents divorced when I was about 15... probably 10 years too late if you ask me. I'm not going into details, but I honestly believe it would've been better if they had done it a LOT earlier.

My family went through two. One when we were young and one in the teens. They had two different effects. The one when I was young destroyed my sister at the age of 5 and her life never really recovered. As for the one when we were teens, yeah, you could argue it was a few years overdue, but seriously that was very, very different than when we were not even in school yet.

And the stats I have read over and over bear this out.

OP, work for the marriage like a gun fight. Say in the fight, do whatever you have to do, and do not take the temptation to lay down and give up. And whatever you do, do not let a gun come between you and being the day to day father of your daughter.

Trust me, the next guy is gonna be far, far worse than you and you will have no ability to stop whatever damage he inflicts. NO gun is worth that.