I really can't control which group I eventually fall into - the same is true for driving, for what it's worth."There are lies, damned lies, and statistics".
I know a bit about statistics. I also know that you can boil them down to smaller populations or scale them up to larger populations and change the probability of certain events occuring. While the overall percentage of an unfavorable outcome during flight is very small, there is a subset of people who fly who you can assert have had a zero chance of any incidents or accidents occuring. There is also a subset of the flying population who can be shown to have had a 100% chance of experiencing and insident or accident.
The question becomes, which subset do you think you might eventually fall into?