For the most part my girlfriend has been incredibly supportive of me getting my gun and LTCH and she even mentioned that it was attractive that I was taking the protection of myself and future family seriously but tonight we had a small blow up (not ammo ) I was showing her my Glock for the first time and she was holding it and asked where the safety was... Well dear there are three passive safeties and then I showed them to her. Then somehow we got to carrying one in the chamber (I think I mentioned this because of the drop safety) and she just got really upset and said she is totally uncomfortable with the idea of that and there is no reason to do that. I tried to explain that I might not always have two hands to chamber a round. If I have to fight a guy off what am I going to do? Throw my gun at him? She then got teary and said she just wished there was a more safety then just pulling the trigger and it going boom. She said I'm a human And humans make mistakes and have accidents and she thinks the likelihood of me hurting myself by chambering one is higher than me being victimized... Any advice?