MSA Sordin Supreme Pro X. They sound great, are incredibly comfortable if you get the gel ear seals, and still allow you to double up ear pro if needed. The way they are made allow me to get a good cheek weld without them getting in the way. My last range day I wore them for about 7 hours and never had any pinching or headache from wearing them. The mic on them is very sensitive and allows for conversations to be had easily.
They are a bit pricey, but are good quality and do everything I need them to do.
How much do you want to spend?
How much protection do you want?
Do you want to be able to shoot rifles without any interference?
Budget is in the $150 max range.
Decent protection and rifles are not an issue with these as the spouse will mainly wear them.
Need good ear relief.