A few unwritten rules.
1. When Churchmouse (CM) or other Mod gives you advice do not argue. A warning is one step below the ban hammer.
2. Be polite. If you get in a heated argument with another INGOer refrain from name calling and other nastiness. It is ok to not respond if you feel yourself being goaded into a fight.
3. Develop thick skin. Any sign of weakness is quickly recognized and considered fair game.
Welcome, hope you last.
Scaring the new guy...
I've met several people off this forum and not once have I thought the guy was an *******. Some of you are so wrapped up in this runner mentality and it's sad. Instead of accusing the guy and giving him other sites to visit, why not embrace him and show him INGO is way more than a classifieds section?
PM inbound new member and possibly (gasp!) friend.