Which is the way it should be.My severe dislike for everyone keeps me from taking sides. If evidence shows you are the aggressor, you are going. Doesn't matter if you are male, female, or non-binary.
And I understand DVs often have the 'abused' stepping in to go after the officer because he's arresting the 'abuser'.
But, what I've seen, that doesn't often happen.
Even when the guy is bruised or bleeding.