The RIA 1911 is going to be way easier for her to shoot than a snappy .380.
1911s are easily one of the easiest shooting designs out there.
That being said, take her shooting to see what she likes. Gun won't do her much good if she isn't comfortable with it.
Believe it or not, a .22 is a FAIR H D weapon.... especially in the hands of a beginner.... Rugers, can be had for around $300.00, Just ask Que.....
He just bought one .... 10 shot single stack..... almost everything you are
looking for .... JMHO .....