Carry what feels right to YOU in YOUR hands...
Carry the size Pistol that YOU feel comfortable using...
Carry a pistol with that YOU are accurate with...
So do real women!Great advice from many on here so far, as usual. But remember, real men carry a .45
I'd amend this to the largest caliber one can find in a firearm that one is comfortable with. Size of firearm frame can actually become a disadvantage, particularly those double-stack magazine models.The largest weapon you can comfortably carry.