I'm too old to move around and last long so my decision is made for me. Defense of a fixed position isn't easy but it's what I have to deal with.
I got him.
Now y'all have got me to thinking about something I had not previously.
I think scavenging / raiding in urban areas would be much easier than in the country. Since none of the Urban Liberal Democrats have weapons of self defense, taking is easy. However, country folk tend to lean Rural Conservative Republican and DO have weapons of self defense, making taking a greater challenge.
Our plan all along has been evacuate suburbia for the woods. LPG is a key component to my prep plan, scavenging grill tanks in the country may be a dicey exercise.
I think that is potentially a real problem even in a more minor "SHTF" because there are so many unprepared people in our fragile society.In such dire circumstances, I'm not sure how you could help a stranger without making yourself a target, either to the stranger or to someone else who may learn you had the means to help someone else.
Nuts and berries are usually on private land also. That's looting as well unless you own the land or go to a state park.Unless people are going to be eating nuts and berries, the difference between scavenging and looting is right about nil.
Thinking that no one actually read about what happened in Argentina.
The farmers that lived rural actually fared worse for violence than those in the city (as if that were possible). Their guard dogs were poisoned and families ambushed at the gates or just taken at the house when 5-6 vehicles full of organized criminals/gangs rolled in. City folk were more able to cover each other and go grey in the shuffling game between apartments/buildings as needed.
People focus on the look of a mob protest/riot and say, "That's what SHTF looks like!" and totally miss that the criminals who a pro's at what they do today will act as small armies later and with a tank full of gas are more than able to reach out to lonely/isolated farms to target and take by swarm attack. Unless you have teamed up to be a real compound, the farm plan might not be a solid in real life as you would think. And before you think "I'd just call my buddies over to fight with me." See how well that worked in Rhodesia and Southern Africa when attempted by farmers only.
Hint - your buddies will arrive too late - if you are able to get word to them at all.
I am saying this as a person living rural. It's nothing personal or preferential for urban survival. But I am saying that the whole "the cities will flow with blood while farmers kill random cannabal looters on the road in front of the farm" is as much fiction as Rawles book was.
Have a garden? Excellent. Think how you will hide it or move it indoors before it all gets taken in the dark of night.
Have outdoor dogs/chickens/cows? Plan now how you will keep them from being stolen or murdered.
Have a large farm to keep people off? Think now what kinds of patrols it would take, how many people and what skills you will need to keep from getting picked off or hurt from friendly fire.
Have hunting skills? Think how you will hunt when the woods are empty, or worse, when a saiga carrying nutjob is killing 8 member of your hunting party and family one by one.
Being on a farm is no guaranty of food - ask the Ukranians in the 1930's.
Being on a farm is no guaranty of safety - ask the Boers.
Being on a farm is no promise that the city won't just drive to you - ask the Argentinians.
Being in a forest is no promise that you will get food from it, instead you might just die there - see Chai Vang.
Sorry to be a bummer, but you need numbers, more numbers, and a few more after that - and even then you need to be organized and smart.
If you don't, you are simply a remote, isolated, supply laden target.
The other problem with getting numbers is you have to live with all those people. Americans aren't used to multi-generational homes. Maybe that's a first world problem but I can imagine a lot of stress throwing families together, especially when half of them are already moaning about their lost lifestyle.
Good men will do bad things out of desperation
We should all remember that "taking care of my family" cannot be achieved when you are wounded or dead. Prepare yourself and your family so you will NOT have to take unnecessary risk.
Sadly, me "taking care of my family" may well involve taking you away from yours.