If you are from Miami county, I don't recommend the NE side of town. I'm also from a small town/rural type county, and it would just not be a good fit to live in Lawrence or Fishers. If you want to keep some sense of small town while still being fairly close to downtown and the east side, I recommend Franklin Township on the southeast side of Indy. That's anything east of Emerson Avenue and south of Troy Avenue. Wanamaker is a good place to live, right off of I-74 for an easy commute downtown by taking I-74 west to I-465 south, then downtown via I-65 north. Lawrence is on the fast track downhill and Fishers is too crowded.