I have a Beretta 92D Centurion with a DAO trigger...and that trigger is much better 'stock' than many other factory triggers!I'd recommend the humble Beretta 92 with the main spring swapped to the D spring, and the elite hammer.
If the grips are too big, pick up Wilson slim grips. If that's still too much trigger reach, put in a Wilson steel trigger. Honestly my favorite of the DA/SA handguns and I've had about all of them.