I've never done anything drunk I wouldn't have done sober. Sure I may have been a bit bolder about it, but I still didn't turn into some sort of homicidal maniac.
An alcoholic may not have had a drink in 20 years. They are still an alcoholic, just one that no longer drinks.
One has to wonder.I personally think people who can't drink and carry a gun shouldn't be carrying a gun when sober either. If they have that little self control... well, the booze is being used as an excuse, it's not the cause.
It is completely true. If you know you get that way when drinking you shouldn't be drinking at all. You could easily grab a knife, chair, broken beer bottle, pool cue ect. I think you take offense to what I say because it's true and directly applies to you. Look how you try and justify yourself:
If you got these sorts of issues with alcohol you need help. You also should own a gun if you can't control yourself and stay away from the bottle. THAT is why I said people who can't control themselves with a gun while drinking shouldn't have a gun while sober.
There is no way I would enter a bar unarmed.
In fact, the last time I was in a bar (a couple of weeks ago), I carried openly.
One has to wonder.
Are you saying alcoholics can’t choose to be sober and responsible? Or someone who has got drunk once or twice and got out of control is not able to make a decision not to drink and should not carry at all?
I personally think people who can't drink and carry a gun shouldn't be carrying a gun when sober either. If they have that little self control... well, the booze is being used as an excuse, it's not the cause.
It is completely true. If you know you get that way when drinking you shouldn't be drinking at all. You could easily grab a knife, chair, broken beer bottle, pool cue ect.
I am just amazed on how you were able to diagnose someone over a thread in an internet forum. Never meeting them, just a few post and you make some pretty harsh allegations based on a juvenile understanding of the disease.
I agree.People need to know themselves and how alcohol affects them, if they know that they can make responsible decisions on whether or not they should carry while visiting a bar(and/or drinking).
I agree 100%. I deal with drunk drivers on a regular basis in my line of work, and almost every one of them thinks they are in control, when they clearly are not, and are not making good decisions. THIS Statement about carrying a weapon while drunk is ridiculous honestly.With all due respect, I get so tired of hearing the "if you can responsibly drink than you can (insert here)" argument. That's the same argument you hear about driving under the influence. There's no way around it, your ability to make decisions, your reflexes, judgement, etc. are affected when you drink.
Your last statement, "I personally think people who can't drink and carry a gun shouldn't be carrying a gun when sober either" is utterly ridiculous. I, and most people, CAN do almost ANYTHING while drinking. CAN and SHOULD are two different things.
That got me kicked out of Cheeseburger in Paradise lol. Guy came up as the "owner" (I knew they were corporately owned) and told me it was illegal. I told him that was in fact incorrect as no IC or ordinance stated that. He stammered and then I asked him why they would not have the hostess tell me something instead of when they set my food down?
Was that the one in Bloomington? I've never carried openly there (only been there once).
Continue to be amazed... (You give us no choice ) I also don't believe that alcoholism is a disease. An addiction? Absoultely. A disorder? If you like. A disease? No. I am well aware of the intricacies of alcoholism. Some people are certainly predisposed to alcoholism via genetics or certain chemical receptors. That in no way changes an addiction into a disease. To do so removes the individuals sense of responsibility. "I can't help I'm a drunk, I have a disease". Sorry I don't buy it. They have an addiction. They may need additional help battling their addiction because of genetics, but it's still an addiciton.
I liken it to the obesity "disease". Again some people are predisposed via genetics, some people take medications for other diseases that cause weigth gain and obesity... a great example is diabetics, especially those who've been on insulin for decades. Obesity isn't their disease. It is a SYMPTOM of a disease, in this case diabeties. These people cannot help being obese (to a degree). It's a losing battle. Other people simply choose to be obese. Thats a topic in and of itself and I'm digressing at this point.
I agree.
Well I would argue this in another post but you want to play internet doctor. Correct me if I am wrong but I believe you have told us that your occupation is an EMT. That’s Emergency Medical Tech? Right?
I never made a diagnosis Observations based on facts supplied. Nothing more.Regardless of whether or not Alcoholism is a disease or an addiction you are not qualified to make a diagnosis.
The above mentioned "addictions" are diseases and are listed on the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services website. http://dhhs.gov/diseases/index.shtml This is not news it’s been widely accepted by Doctors and other health care officials for quite some time. Addiction is what causes the disease.
I have seen what alcoholism does, it killed my dad and grandfather, it took my grandma’s arm and it tried to take my mother. My mother has been sober over 25 years and is a respected counselor now. She has been in the alcohol/drug treatment business for 15 years. Oh yea she could be a mean drunk too, she carries a gun and has no business drinking.
Glad you realize you have a predisposition. I'm not sure where "you would be wrong again" would come into that however. I made an observation (you are predisposed based on family history) based on what facts you gave me. I'm not sure how repeating the facts is in any way diagnosing. I never claimed you have any alcohol abuse issues. Althought your fascination with my drinking habits and if i've ever been "**** faced drunk" is a bit disconcertingNow doc you can start with your “genetics exception” and diagnose me. You would be wrong again.
I agree 100%. I deal with drunk drivers on a regular basis in my line of work, and almost every one of them thinks they are in control, when they clearly are not, and are not making good decisions. THIS Statement about carrying a weapon while drunk is ridiculous honestly.
What are you inferring I am denying? What exactly am I projecting?Some people wrongly believe denial is the indicator. Projection (as what I as refering to) is what I went on. Denial can suspicions. Big difference. Having alcohol in the house or not means nothing. An alcoholic may not have had a drink in 20 years. They are still an alcoholic, just one that no longer drinks.
Quote: "I, and most people, CAN do almost ANYTHING while drinking." is clearly projecting.
carry while drinking , ok..
getting drunk while carrying, not a good idea..
But one can drink without getting "drunk" ..yes the legal limit for driving is one thing.. but that does not change the right of a person to have a gun..
Yup. I actually called into the corporate owner for the area and he got an earful, and I haven't been back since
Nothing makes me angrier than the "look, we're gun owners too..." argument
I am picturing bars, parties, etc with lots of drinking, large crowd and drunken idiocy. People falling on you drunk and vomiting, telling you how much they love you, then passing out at your feet while you are singing karaoke.
Is it legal to have a gun there? sure. Is it the most intelligent move to have a gun there? Nope.
I simply cannot agree with you. At all. Lets set aside the drunks puking at your feet (I've never seen that in any club or bar I've been to).
Take a responsible adult. Arm him/her. Exactly why is that person less worth of being able to defend themselves because they went to a bar or club with some friends for a few hours?
You didn't even stipulate that the person carrying was sober or drunk. Just that they were around some drunk people.
I grew up in South Florida. I partied. A lot. I was always armed (which isn't legal in Florida if you are in a place that derives more than 50% of it's income from the sale of alcohol). No drugs, but I would drink. My wife (then girl friend and later fiancee) insisted I carry. One of the reasons I fell for her as hard as I did.
Did I need a weapon in the clubs/bars we would frequent? Not any more so than shopping at Publix, they were all nice places. Did I need a weapon going back to the car? Absolutely! For those familiar with S. Florida I frequented Clematis Street in WPB and Las Olas in Lauderdale. Both very nice and controlled areas, but most of the parking was just outside of the containment area.
Just because we enjoyed dancing and hanging out with friends... does that mean we deserved to be robbed or murdered because people like you don't think we should be allowed to defend ourselves? I also refused to stay at home and let the criminals win by keeping us from going out and enjoying ourselves.
Sorry but it comes down to personal responsibility. If you can responsibly drink and carry a firearm. Good for you. If you can't, don't!
I personally think people who can't drink and carry a gun shouldn't be carrying a gun when sober either. If they have that little self control... well, the booze is being used as an excuse, it's not the cause.
Rephrase: You quoted Mrs. Hoppes. I saw that, where you then chastised her for saying she didn't think it was the most intelligent move to be armed in a place such as she described. Not that anyone should or should not be armed, just that to be so in that situation, she thought was less than intelligent. Conversely, you came out and said that there were some people (not criminals) you thought should not be armed, even when sober. I don't see why she deserved to be chastised in your eyes when your own statement was IMHO, far more intrusive and overbearing. It is that discrepancy I did not see you address. Would you please clarify?
"IMHO" was the operative phrase in your post.
I believe that mrs hoppes suggestion that she thinks people should be disarmed and easy victims simply because they have chosen a legal place to be is worse than my suggestion that people without any self control should not carry a firearm.
I cannot see how you would disagree with that.
Total lack of self control (as your alcoholism implies) lends itself to the rest of your life as well. I've never met an alcoholic who had any decent judgment when sober let alone while they were drunk.
But I'd rather have a bottle in front of me,
Than have to have a frontal lobotomy.
I might be drunk, but at least I'm not insane.